The Fine Line Between Self Awareness and Intellectualization

The Fine Line Between Self Awareness and Intellectualization

If you’ve read self development books, been to therapy, studied psychology or follow emotional intelligence, therapy or trauma informed accounts on social media, chances are you’ve developed a good deal of self awareness about your “stuff”. We’ve all been handed experiences or circumstances in our 

Is Over-Explaining a Coping Strategy?

Is Over-Explaining a Coping Strategy?

If you find yourself being long winded, can’t fit your written response into the allotted space, you use lots of parentheses when you write, you find the need to explain every no or if someone double texts or emails you because you didn’t respond… this 

How to Recover When You’re Emotionally Drained

How to Recover When You’re Emotionally Drained

Being emotionally drained and physically drained sometimes feel the same but they are not! Because they are not the same, we are often left wondering what’s wrong.   We ask this question because being THAT tired and overwhelmed doesn’t make sense when you add up all 

3 Reasons You Should Go To Therapy Before It’s a Crisis

3 Reasons You Should Go To Therapy Before It’s a Crisis

When I first started practicing as a therapist, many people that reached out for therapy were in crisis.  They were in dire need of help.  We saw people in our practice who were dealing with intense depressive or anxiety symptoms, severe trauma, life crises and 

How To Support Your Nervous System

How To Support Your Nervous System

In our last post we discussed nervous system regulation and how it can impact your mental and emotional health.  Now let’s cover how to support your nervous system and develop habits to cope before stressful situations occur.   How to Know your sympathetic nervous system 

Try this One Trick To Add Mindfulness To Your Day

Try this One Trick To Add Mindfulness To Your Day

Do you ever try to take a relaxing moment to yourself, and then notice your brain is escaping to the never ending to do list, upcoming events, or a past mistake? Our brain tends to focus on the past or future, which can lead to 

3 Reasons Nervous System Regulation is Essential to Your Mental Health

3 Reasons Nervous System Regulation is Essential to Your Mental Health

You have  probably seen people in the mental health and mindfulness space talk about nervous system regulation.  Nervous system regulation sounds complicated but once you understand some basics, it’s easy to see the immediate positive impact it can have on your life.    So, let’s go 

3 Ways to Create Trust and Connection Without Being Perfect

3 Ways to Create Trust and Connection Without Being Perfect

We have entered the holiday season and perfectionism is something that can come up now more than other times of the year, especially for perfectionists.  However, you can create trust and connection without being perfect. In our last blog post we talked about the cost 

The Cost of Perfectionism 

The Cost of Perfectionism 

The struggles associated with perfectionism are usually hard for others to see and hard for the individual to admit.   Perfectionists usually appear to have it all together, however, under the surface, there is an ongoing battle raging.  People may think being a perfectionist is a 

How Does Screen Time Impact Your Mental Health?

How Does Screen Time Impact Your Mental Health?

In today’s society lots of activities, both business and pleasure, involve a screen.  It’s important to understand the impact of too much screen time and to consider ways to manage it wisely.   Did you know that looking at a screen all day can impact your