Tag: Mental Health

When to Stop Asking ChatGPT and Talk to a Therapist Instead

When to Stop Asking ChatGPT and Talk to a Therapist Instead

In today’s world, artificial intelligence (or AI) has made its way into most everything, even therapy. There are tools like ChatGPT that can be helpful for insight, reflection, and language. So using AI for support is not necessarily a bad thing. But there’s a point 

3 Things to Consider As You Get Back into Your Routine in 2024

3 Things to Consider As You Get Back into Your Routine in 2024

Maybe you have recently had some time off and your routine has been different because your family has been in holiday mode; but now it’s time to get back into your groove. This is actually a great time to reflect on what parts of your 

How Does Screen Time Impact Your Mental Health?

How Does Screen Time Impact Your Mental Health?

In today’s society lots of activities, both business and pleasure, involve a screen.  It’s important to understand the impact of too much screen time and to consider ways to manage it wisely.  

Did you know that looking at a screen all day can impact your mood?  

Studies have shown that adults who watch TV or look at a computer for more than 6 hours per day are more likely to experience moderate to severe depression (healthline.com).  

Depression can lead to loneliness and isolation and spending the majority of your day in front of a screen will likely prohibit you from connecting with real people and creating relationships, adding to the loneliness . 

Screen time late in the evening can have negative effects on sleep habits as one study concludes, ‘the use of portable light-emitting devices immediately before bedtime has biological effects that may perpetuate sleep deficiency and disrupt circadian rhythms..’(Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences).  

We know that getting adequate sleep each night is important to mental health and we talked about the importance of rest in a recent blog post.  Have you checked out Which 5 Basics are Essential to Your Mental Health?

Screen Time is Not About Laziness or Self Indulgence

There’s no need to judge ourselves or others about screen time.  For so many adults, screen time is something that can’t be avoided. Some jobs require that you work on a computer most of the day. 

Also, not all screen time is bad.  Keeping in touch with friends and family through social media or video chat is sometimes the only connection you may have with them, and those connections are important.

However, something to keep in mind is what this article  on keepitusable.com explains about how social media can be addicting.  It states, “Having your social connections reaffirmed makes you feel good.  Social networks are physically addictive as well as psychologically. A study from Harvard University showed that self-disclosure online fires up a part of the brain that also lights up when taking an addictive substance, like cocaine.” So when we feel like we are being sucked in and that we need to check in online it may be because we are craving that high that we experience from being online.  

The Netflix series ‘The Social Dilemma’ shows how the use of social media platforms is causing humans to interact with each other differently .  It goes on to demonstrate how social media platforms are able to manipulate their users through constant notifications, engagement features such as the like button, and by sharing information that is targeted to specific groups.  

Seeing these things and using these features encourage them to think and feel a certain way, and sometimes take action based on those feelings.  So, feeling like you need to check your phone constantly is based on compelling chemical responses occurring in the body.  

This is why it’s important to be mindful of being judgmental about screen time. It’s not all within your control, especially if you are not aware of the physiology behind those impulses.  This is why building awareness is key.

Building Awareness

Setting up boundaries and limits related to screen time is just as important for adults as it is for kids.  There are apps and tools on your phone or other devices that are available to help you track your screen time and set limits for yourself.  

iPhones give you a screen time report with the average time spent per day on your phone and how it compared to the previous week. 

You can go into your settings and schedule downtime or set time limits for each app.  Most Android devices also have this feature within their settings.  

You can also use devices like an Apple watch or Fitbit that will remind you to move when you have been inactive for a period of time.  Use these reminders to take a break from the screen.

Awareness and reminders are key to support you in beginning to wisely manage your screen time.  Managing screen time is something you can do to support your overall well being. 

How to Manage Screen Time 

There are a variety of ways you can set boundaries and limits for screen time. Here are a few ideas:

  • Create phone free zones like the dinner table or the bedroom so those spaces are always off limits for devices. 
  • Create a schedule and identify certain times during the day that you will avoid spending time on a screen such as first thing in the morning, while you are eating or right before bed.  
  • Develop a family agreement to hold each other accountable.   Establish times and spaces that are acceptable for your devices and give reminders to each other when one of you is on your device outside of the identified times and/or spaces.

When setting boundaries and limits on screen time you will need to be intentional and goal directed. 

If you are experiencing dissatisfaction, boredom, difficulty being present, difficulty concentrating or enjoying life, decreased personal interactions, trouble with relationships or poor sleep habits it may be directly related to the amount of time you spend in front of a screen.    

It can help to identify what you are struggling with and then track how cutting back on your screen impacts those specific struggles.  If you see positive results you will likely be encouraged to stick to your boundaries and limits on screen time.  

Focusing on these three things can make all the difference:  

  • understanding how screen time can affect your mental health
  • increasing your awareness of tools and strategies to limit screen time 
  • developing a plan to put effective boundaries in place.   

Do you have trouble setting boundaries for yourself when it comes to screen time?  If you need support with this Contact us, we would love to help!

Getting Your Teen to Master the Basics

Getting Your Teen to Master the Basics

As a parent, if you can teach your teen to master the basics then you will be setting them up to cope with the stressors of life in a healthy way. All parents want to prepare their children to be able to face challenging situations 

Which 5 Basics are Essential to Your Mental Health

Which 5 Basics are Essential to Your Mental Health

When clients are going through a difficult time, they often want to work through the stressors.  Of course.  However, I often redirect them to really focusing on the basics to create a stable platform from which to address what is happening.  Creating that stability makes 

5 Instagram Accounts That Can Support Your Growth (and help detox your feed)

5 Instagram Accounts That Can Support Your Growth (and help detox your feed)

There are some great Instagram accounts out there that break down old ways of thinking and teach according to current concepts and findings in the psychology world.

I love how these therapists, coaches and teachers are able to capture complex concepts and put them into digestible infographics or quotes.

Following accounts like these are a great way to keep helpful thinking front and center, learn about yourself and support the work you are doing in therapy.

Check these out:

@the.holistic.psychologist

@young_pueblo

@sitwithwhit

@somaticexperiencingint

@theselflovefix

Do you have any favorite accounts that support your mental health?

Is Rest At The Top of Your To Do List?  Why Not?

Is Rest At The Top of Your To Do List? Why Not?

We all know there is a point of diminishing returns when it comes to productivity. But do you act on the signals your body is giving you to take a break? It’s hard to do that, isn’t it? While we all might ignore hunger, thirst 

Community Resource: South Bay Families Connected with Anna Pirkl, MFT, ATR, LAADAC Talking about Improving Mental Health Through Kindness

Anna Pirkl, MFT, ATR, LAADAC, one of our One Heart therapists, partners with South Bay Families Connected to do outreach in the community on her own time, outside of her work with OHCC. South Bay Families Connected is a non-profit organization whose mission it is 

The Holidays and Social Media: 3 Quick Tips

The Holidays and Social Media: 3 Quick Tips

Yes, social media is a topic of discussion in therapy.  Every day.

And, we are right at that time of year when people are posting about their holiday activities and we might have a little more time or temptation to be keeping up with what’s going on.

This is going to be short and sweet.

Before social media takes you down like quick sand, consider these 3 things:

ONE: Reminder!  People don’t post the whole story.

Yup, anyone can get a good group shot, a cute selfie or a nice holiday scene going on.  And there is no mention of the tension you could cut with a knife in the room or comments under someone’s breath or out loud criticism or bickering.

Just remember, there’s always more than meets the eye.  I don’t mean that all family situations or holiday activities are rife with conflict or difficult moments.  But we are human beings living a human life.  Things are not always perfect, no matter how they look.

You know this.  It’s just a reminder!

TWO:  Give yourself some support to resist temptation.  Track your screen time.

There’s an app that will help you with managing your phone use so you can be a more mindful and engaged participant in life (and the holidays!).  It’s called Moment.  It’s free!

And it can help you build some more awareness about what you are doing with your time and your phone.  This time with loved ones is precious.  We don’t get it back.

And, the phone and social media scrolling can take away that time as well as take your mood into a downward spiral of comparison.  Just not worth it.

The app has different features that allow you to track your screen time, limit it at certain times or help you get in a range of usage that feels good for you.  It actually tells you if you are in the green, yellow or red zone with your usage levels.  Aren’t you curious to see what zone you are in? This would be a good time to download it.

THREE:  If you do find yourself comparing your life with what people post on social media, use those feelings as goals for the new year.

Yes, we can have good intentions that fall by the way side.  Let’s say you fall down that rabbit hole of comparing and envy.

Well, jealousy is an emotion that comes to tell you about what you want and do not yet have in your life or are not allowing in your life.

So, if jealousy or envy arise, it’s a great opportunity to see clearly what you would like to create in your life in the new year.  It’s also a great time to think about ways that you may have inadvertently been blocking a deepening of your friendships, a healing of your relationship with your father, a romantic relationship, more financial abundance or the opportunity to travel more.

If you aren’t sure what is getting in the way, journal about it. Or talk to a close friend and get their reflections or start seeing a therapist.  There is support around you for you to have what you want in your life.

I hope you enjoy a meaningful holiday season and come out of this time with some more peace and enjoyment or with some goals as you head into the new year!