Did Your Kid Hear That?  What Kids Know and How to Communicate About It.

Did Your Kid Hear That? What Kids Know and How to Communicate About It.

We talk a lot in sessions about what kids hear and witness when there is stress going on inside a family. Did they hear it or see it? Do they know? If a parent cries or parents argue, on some level, kids are going to …

Resource: Blissful Kids, Mindfulness Training

Resource: Blissful Kids, Mindfulness Training

Blissful Kids was created by a Dad who started teaching mindfulness to his son at just 6 years old. I found this website when I was looking for ways to teach my clients mindfulness strategies. I have used this website to support kids, families and …

Community Resource: Leah Neihaus, LCSW interviewed by Nikki Eby, MFT, ATR-BC

Community Resource: Leah Neihaus, LCSW interviewed by Nikki Eby, MFT, ATR-BC

I first had the opportunity of interacting with Leah Niehaus, LCSW when she invited One Heart Counseling Center to share about mindfulness, emotional awareness, and facilitate an art therapy activity at one of her daughter’s National Charity League (NCL) monthly meetings. Leah informed us that …

Should You Push Your Child to Be In Therapy?

Should You Push Your Child to Be In Therapy?

So you see that your child, preteen or teen could really benefit from therapy. And, your child, preteen or teen doesn’t want to do it. This is a tough dilemma. One that comes from being an aware and attuned parent. So, right there, you are …

When Your Child or Teen is Resistant to Therapy: What to Do

When Your Child or Teen is Resistant to Therapy: What to Do

There are lots of first phone calls that start with “my child [or teenager] needs therapy, but I don’t know what is going to work”. Some parents will say: “maybe I’m the one who needs help!”. Or they say: “we’ve tried therapy before, but it …

Community Resource: Our Village, A Social Learning Community

Community Resource: Our Village, A Social Learning Community

I recently had the chance to sit down to lunch with Monica Fyfe, MFT, founder of Our Village. Our Village is a 503c non-profit organization offering group based social skills support for any family that has a child managing any kind of social deficit (including …

3 Things That Help When You Are Beyond Stressed

3 Things That Help When You Are Beyond Stressed

When you are beyond stressed, there are very few self care remedies that you feel like doing. Even if they are going to do wonders for you like exercise or breathing or meditation. Honestly, when I am beyond, I could care less about what is …

Lawnmower Parenting–It is so tempting!!

Lawnmower Parenting–It is so tempting!!

I’m pretty sure you would answer with a resounding “YES!” if I asked you whether you wanted to raise your child to be resilient. Right, because you care about raising a child that can be a successful, well adjusted, contributing member to society. What if …

Keeping Your Cool When Your Kids Are Not

Keeping Your Cool When Your Kids Are Not

I think we go into parenthood with the intention of showing love to our children and staying calm when our children are upset or misbehaving. We plan to parent in such a way that our children will only need to be told to do something …

Emotions: Are They in the Way or Getting You on the Way?

Emotions: Are They in the Way or Getting You on the Way?

“Emotions can get in the way or get you on the way.” -Mavis Mazhura So, how are you supposed to tell the difference? Are they getting in the way?  Or getting you on the way? Let’s break this down. –>  We have emotions that are current. [Hint: …