Tag: Relationship

Do you fight dirty in your relationship?

Do you fight dirty in your relationship?

Fighting in relationships is inevitable and, actually, important. The couples I worry about most are the ones that don’t fight. Because it means it’s harder to get to what’s really going on. Fighting can be what comes before a new level of intimacy, a step 

How Is It “Not Personal” When There Is A Difficult  Interaction Between Two People?

How Is It “Not Personal” When There Is A Difficult Interaction Between Two People?

This comes up a lot. I get that it is confusing. How can an interaction between two people not be personal? Meaning, how can you not take what someone does or says personally??? Well, it FEELS personal. Of course. The things is, most of what